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As you can see, it's my blog. So my rules yeah? Strictly no ripping. I appreciate the colours in my life very much and each black notes in it are very much of what I am today.I can be hysterical at times especially during my gloomy days.like other girls..I find passion in hanging out..gossiping..dressing up etc. I do have a boyish side of me doh..I love sports! plays basketball..volleyball..cricket..running on the track..etc.However..Im rather shy when it comes to being around new people..but I can be quite loud and goofy when im around people that Im familiar with! hehe..befriend with me if you wanna find out more!! oh ya! u may leave if u hate me..=)
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dead blog
Thursday, March 24, 2011
go to my tumblr kay..
k thanks bye! :)
mwah!
路人
Sunday, March 13, 2011
前几天和一位朋友喝茶聊天，这位朋友现在处于一种难以形容的状态，
在这种状态里让他看清了许多东西，
他认为你身边的每个人终究会变成你人生的一位路人甲。
他认为你身边的每个人终究会变成你人生的一位路人甲。
以他目前这个状况他非常认同天下无不散之宴席这句话。
你在这里喝完了又到另一台去敬酒，
你在这里喝完了又到另一台去敬酒，
兜兜转转，那些人来来去去，有几个能真正的成为你人生中重要的人物？
对于他来说是没有。==
对于他来说是没有。==
有时后因为某些原因令你和某些比较亲密的人渐行渐远，我们也永远不懂可能一些对你来说不起眼的人物有朝一日会成为你生命里重要的人，
又或是在以后的日子里对你很大的帮助。
又或是在以后的日子里对你很大的帮助。
路上行人太多，有的顺路，有的对路，有的擦肩，有的陌路。
对视不轻易，回望也常见，我们来来往往，
脚步有些乱，但是路终究笔直。
脚步有些乱，但是路终究笔直。
每个人对我们来说都是路人甲，在路上，走自己的路。
每个人都想跟一些让我们有安全感的人产生链接，这是与生俱来的渴望...
我们自然而然的设法去让自己被所熟悉的人所围绕。
称呼一个人为路人甲没有错，他们是重要的社会关系，
帮助你去度过日子且让
生活更富趣味。他们可能不是那么了解你，事实上他们提供了我们原本寄望亲朋好友能提供的事物，包括有趣的时光，
一种历史和延续性的感受，情感上的支持，
精神上的教训，也有可能是恼怒。
帮助你去度过日子且让
生活更富趣味。他们可能不是那么了解你，事实上他们提供了我们原本寄望亲朋好友能提供的事物，包括有趣的时光，
一种历史和延续性的感受，情感上的支持，
精神上的教训，也有可能是恼怒。
人生几十年，对于有些事我们不必太过于执着，几年后想起现在所经历的一切也只不过是生命里的其中一场片段。谁是谁非，天知就好。坚持执着，放下就好。一切烦恼，能解就好。很多事情，看开就好。
人的一生，平安就好。
人的一生，平安就好。
听过这位朋友的一番话，令我领悟到姜还是老的辣...
他这一路上所看到的风景，又何止这些？
他这一路上所看到的风景，又何止这些？
当下的我觉得就算每个人都是路过的，我能做的就是尽量enjoy于他们在一起的时光，无论是开心的，愤怒的，悲哀的或是无谓的。因为我不知道这场宴席在什么时候会散，可能明天，几个月后，又或是几年后。活在当下是最实在的。
小不忍则乱大谋
Friday, March 11, 2011
在人与人之间最宝贵的，不是一起吃喝，一起玩乐，一起郊游，一起嬉闹。
人与人之间要互相体谅，互相信任，互相了解，互相包容，这才是最可贵的情谊啊。人际之间的各种关系，都要靠‘体谅’来维系，如果有任何一方缺乏‘互相体谅’的情操，则彼此的关系就会如同火炉上的冰块，不能安全长久。
人和人相处，因为有不同的个性，不同的爱好，不同的习惯，不同的想法，很多的不同。
如果没有‘体谅’的润滑，这许多的不同又如何能融和呢？
=(
Temporary Joyous
Monday, March 7, 2011
this picture was taken during Zen's birthday at Tenji Mont Kiara.
i like this picture so much.. lol for no reason -.-
oh hi people! this blog is dying yo! pardon my lazyness lah!
everybody go create a Tumblr account please.. out dated loh u all ==
bye! see u there! =)
“匹接诶思替”
Thursday, February 17, 2011
很多时候我们没有前辈在指明方向和铺好路子，只能靠自己摸石头过河。这样的生活肯定比较艰辛和卖力的啦，但是一旦成功后我们会比他们更有喜悦更有成就感，因为是通过自己的辛劳和智慧创造出来的，虽然路比较难走。但是我们只要想到生活中的一切都是自己通过劳动得来的，而且可以安心的享用。这一点比什么都强咯对不对？日子一天天过去，我们要面对的选择也会很多，还要面对未来一些变化，这些都要提前做好准备。
经一事长一智，不断实践，发现问题，解决问题，不失为成长之道! wootz!
人，不能没有朋友，在人生的每个阶段，我们都需要朋友，朋友是出了家人以外与我们关系最密切的人！
朋友有亲有疏，有好有坏，有的朋友只是泛泛之交，点头之交。有的朋友可以秉烛夜谈。一个人一生能够得一知己，可谓足堪告慰平生而无憾矣！因为相交满天下，知音有几人！哈哈...有些朋友能与你在车内大声喧哗，有的则认为你很不正常。=.= 在这个世界上，有的人可以为朋友兩胁插刀，毁家纾难。有些''粉肠''则见利忘义，卖友求荣。-.-
有的朋友可以同甘共苦，共患难，有的只能共患难，不能同享荣华，有的则能共享荣华，不能共度患难！
我老豆跟我说过，交朋友，所谓近朱者赤，近墨者黑。要亲近益友，不要亲近恶友，要交知耻的朋友，有义的朋友，有信用的朋友和有道德家教的朋友。我听到都显 =.= 但他的良言也蛮有道理一下 xD
此外，这几个月来我领悟到慎言的重要性！O.O
慎言的人比较不容易受到伤害。语言，有唠叨，危言，狡辩，贫嘴，妄言，恶口，胡说，冷语，争议，还有...废话 =.=
语言容易犯的毛病何其多，所以我们不得不慎言！=X
现代人喜欢信口雌黄，好伦是非，说三道四，缪发议论，有时候危言耸听，标新立异，故弄玄虚，轻口薄言，冷语冰人。说话如剑，到处制造口业，所以让人感到世界上只有哑巴是最慎言的人，也是最不造作口业的人！xD
别人说你好，你会很喜欢吗？你有没有想过，他赞你赞的对不对？别人毁谤你，你就在那边生气，你又有没有想一想，他的批评毁谤，合不合理叻？form 4的话语课本有教过 ''信言不美，美言不信！''
听到别人讲，或是自己想到了什么事，你有没有好好地思考一下再去实行？虽然人的思想反应要敏锐，迅速，但是过分的不经思考，也会有不适当的时候。
有的人一味地固执自己的想法，不肯去听别人的善言，即使听别人说话，也不经思考，所以结果就很难完美了咯..=.=
总而言之，我真的很希望有人能发明两种filter...一种放进嘴巴里，另外一种放进脑袋里面！ ==
okay...我nag完了 =D 请你们不要对号入座咯！不要perasan在那边以为我在写谁谁谁.. -.-
我只是在练习我的华文写作能力啦！很久没有写作文liao~~ xD
我今天突然变得文绉绉的! 发啊！！！ =D =D =D
我很珍惜这个家，你呢？
Fate
Thursday, January 27, 2011
PJST!! <3
Almost every time on the court is joy and bliss. But some times are even better than others.. haha oh and even off court too! we're not only team mates.. but friends.. siblings.. oxygen..
Awoken
Saturday, January 22, 2011
i spent a good part of yesterday morning and night wrestling with questions dat i only woke up to struggle with again... why am i doing this harr? why try so hard leh? why bother with relationships? wats the point man?
"arent things easier and better being independent and self-sufficient?" i asked myself for what is probably the millionth time in my life..haih..
anyone who knows me well enough knows this tough-chick front i always try to hard to put up.. i don't depend on ppl cause i dont like to be vulnerable.. in any sort of relationships watsoever...
even the closest ppl to me know that i only let them into my life to a certain extent.. =( and even when i share things closest to my heart... its after I've already wrestled and dealt with it on my own...
"i could easily go on living like that.." i told myself.. but instead i'm choosing to let ppl in... and i ask myself why...why har? i question why im going against everything i used to stand for..
why put myself in such a vulnerable position? why allow others to see my weaknesses? why care so much about other ppl? wat's the point?
arghh! but honestly.. i never regret of knowing these ppl in my life... SERIOUSLY! =) looking back at wat i've been trough.. i'd be a complete mess if i dint meet u all... haha u guys make me laugh a little louder..smile a little brighter..and just live a little better.. its important to have sumbody dat can make u laugh tho! sumbody u can trust.. sumbody dat... err u know.. turns u on! =D im sorry that i may disappoint u guys sumtimes..=(
but im still me kay?
some days.. at the end of the day.. after dinner with a friend u met recently.. u end up talking for hours and pouring out the entire story of ur life...lols u swap anecdotes.. trade secrets.. laugh about silly regrets and get all melancholic together about less silly ones.. and ones u wished never had to happen..
u talk about things close to ur heart.. things u wished for once upon a time.. and things u still wish for..
u talk about things u like.. about creating and writing and photography and art and ppl who inspire u..=D
u let ur guard down.. and for awhile.. u're not another one in a million scraping through a dark and depressing winter day.. u are not alone! whoo!
and some days.. u realize~ here is where u are meant to be... this's the point lah! haha
walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light.
xie xie ni men ;)
Fairytale
Thursday, January 20, 2011
when u say u just slipped away..
i cried.
i think everything we go through is a learning experience... i know sumtimes we seem to think everything is a curse and the universe is conspiring against us..
but if we refuse to change the way we think.. then we cannot change our lives. haih..
we''ll never find real.. lasting satisfaction in a relationship if we think its all we need to find happiness...
we can never be a hundred percent sure that the relationship will last when we're seeing a relationship as a destination... because nothing in this life is solid.
even after u've known a person forever.. people still change!
if u dont feel the same way.. please tell that person.. instead of leading that person on and playing with her feelings. seriously..
move on doesnt mean i'll forget all the memories.. i'll still remember it.. but it doesnt affect me anymore..
btw.. thanks for everything.. =)
i really appreciate it when u try ur best to solve the problems for me..
thank u for breaking my heart.. u've only made me me stronger..
there're alot more i want to say.. but spies are everywhere nowadays..
sigh =(
What to do?
Friday, January 14, 2011
im standing on a knife-edge..
to the left... a sheer drop into a raging sea
the right side...a sheer drop into a deep blackness...unknown and unseen!
maybe choosing either is better than standing there with my feet cut and bleeding.
haih..
Helo 2011
Thursday, January 6, 2011
i'm supposed to be asleep by now. (Not that it makes any difference really) but the thoughts that just flurried through my mind are so blah-blog-worthy! i'll keep it short and sweet. aha..
argh!omg college is starting on monday! D;
I survived a whole semester!!! one semester has come and gone!
Just like that!!! i met people..made new friends.. struggled some..triumphed some..changed in the process..grew up a little more..wrote more..read more..walked more..drove more..lived
somewhat differently...ahhhh =]
oh and i went melacca yesterday! =D I HAD FUN THO!
credits to lishaaa..
aww Diane.. xD
Shea Wen looked like some body guard here.. ;P
Japanese layer cake! u can only found it in Melacca! and it taste GREAT!
we had satay celup for dinner! x)
ok ignore this.. -.-
oh by the way.. my facebook account is having problem -.-
but Da Da is helping me to solve the problem.. awww =]
god bless him man.. otherwise i gotta create a new account x(
training at U6 tomorrow~ whooo! =]
Bell
Friday, December 24, 2010
People say that life is like a roller coaster...
for the past 19 years of my life.. it has certainly seemed that way. -.-
there was no such thing as smooth sailing..fml~ not for any period of time that lasted for more than a few days..
at least... as i mark off the last few days of the year before i move into a new year..
out of the teenage years and one step closer to adulthood..
this has not changed..
MIBC @ MABA
an outing after spm ends.. Diane's suggestion =]
Tao Japanese Buffet.. not bad tho =]
and i camwhored =.=
k thanks bye =]
and Merry Christmas! :D
What tomorrow brings
Thursday, November 25, 2010
u can only be strong for urself... u cant expect people to be that arm for u to hold on to because that arm is going to get tired after awhile tho...
when that person lets go of u.. u fall..u fall.. HARD. it hurts even more tho..
the cuts are deeper.. the scars hold on to u.
but dont stay on the ground too long or wait for sumone to pick u up again wei...
u wipe those tears and u pick urself up!!
a couple nights ago..Lisha came to Puchong and had "sihaam" session with me at One Puchong Cafe. hehh..
she was fed up of studying i guess? so she gave up at the end and decided to have gossip session with me =) which means " sihaam session! " haha! by the end of the night (and much laughter and good conversation later) i felt stronger and less worn out than i did before going for the sihaam session.. =] thanks woman!
i felt strong when i spend an hour trying to convince a friend going through a tough time that I cared..
i thought i had no strength to convince the person and was on the verge of giving up and thinking to myself.. "aiyah.. if people want to be so pessimistic, wtv la... they want to think like that.. their problem lo =(" Even though i dint really think i could convince the person... i stucrk through and even though one conversation is not going to change sumbody else's life.. i felt strong because i know it's a start tho! =]
today morning..i snoozed my alarm like three or four times and i dint feel like getting out of bed.. omg -.-
just one of those days when u wonder why u have to wake up..
But i told myself that i believe every new day holds something good! even if it doesnt feel like it.. =.=
i got out of bed showered and went to play volleyball! >:D aww i miss my lovely juniors! =) came home and slept a little.. my friend came pick me up around 1pm.. went shopping at Summit USJ and Sunway Pyramid.. oh and i got myself a Polo Tee at Polo Haus =) enjoyed my day...hahaha
buffet dinner @ Shangri-la Hotel KL! xD
PJ people.. :D
at the hotel lobby..
i finally found u devil casing! >;D
we <3>
when that person lets go of u.. u fall..u fall.. HARD. it hurts even more tho..
the cuts are deeper.. the scars hold on to u.
but dont stay on the ground too long or wait for sumone to pick u up again wei...
u wipe those tears and u pick urself up!!
a couple nights ago..Lisha came to Puchong and had "sihaam" session with me at One Puchong Cafe. hehh..
she was fed up of studying i guess? so she gave up at the end and decided to have gossip session with me =) which means " sihaam session! " haha! by the end of the night (and much laughter and good conversation later) i felt stronger and less worn out than i did before going for the sihaam session.. =] thanks woman!
i felt strong when i spend an hour trying to convince a friend going through a tough time that I cared..
i thought i had no strength to convince the person and was on the verge of giving up and thinking to myself.. "aiyah.. if people want to be so pessimistic, wtv la... they want to think like that.. their problem lo =(" Even though i dint really think i could convince the person... i stucrk through and even though one conversation is not going to change sumbody else's life.. i felt strong because i know it's a start tho! =]
today morning..i snoozed my alarm like three or four times and i dint feel like getting out of bed.. omg -.-
just one of those days when u wonder why u have to wake up..
But i told myself that i believe every new day holds something good! even if it doesnt feel like it.. =.=
i got out of bed showered and went to play volleyball! >:D aww i miss my lovely juniors! =) came home and slept a little.. my friend came pick me up around 1pm.. went shopping at Summit USJ and Sunway Pyramid.. oh and i got myself a Polo Tee at Polo Haus =) enjoyed my day...hahaha
buffet dinner @ Shangri-la Hotel KL! xD
PJ people.. :D
at the hotel lobby..
i finally found u devil casing! >;D
we <3>
buying stationary at Popular IOI mall.. all the best woman!
Khenniee
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Happy Hatch Day To Miss Khen Li Shahhhhh!
tadaaaa.. Hello Kitty cake! awww ;)
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padan muka. (Y)
LMAO @ Renee.. hahaha
fat cat queueing for ice-cream. tsk tsk tsk
fight for chicken!
group picture! ;]
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eeeee!! the birthday biatch. haha xD
kay lar.. all the best for ur STPM kay =]
stop emo-ing at night and make ur days productive woman!
wootz!
tadaaaa.. Hello Kitty cake! awww ;)
alright..pictures below are randomly continuous shots..
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padan muka. (Y)
LMAO @ Renee.. hahaha
fat cat queueing for ice-cream. tsk tsk tsk
fight for chicken!
group picture! ;]
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eeeee!! the birthday biatch. haha xD
kay lar.. all the best for ur STPM kay =]
stop emo-ing at night and make ur days productive woman!
wootz!
一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是明白。------ 因为爱过，所以慈悲；因为懂得，所以宽容。
You smile i smile
Friday, November 12, 2010
SIGH~
we're not always able to quit whenever we want and there are times we are forced to keep at watever we're doing.. not always do we have opportunity knocking at our doors...oh well.. it is good to quit sometimes tho..
and btw..i was going to write an angry post that would probably get me into trouble.. but i decided against it ;) hehh! i've better things to do than to provoke every other person who reads my blog... the world has enough ppl with issues for today..i think~ aish! fml man.. lols forget it! chill sok farrrrn :)
the face of the clock read 3:16..i shall get ready to go Cheras now =] i hope PBC wins tonite :D if only i could easily control time like how i can easily stand on my tip toes.. take down the clock.. replace the old batteries with new ones..and wind the hands to read the time i would want it to read (and that's the correct time.. ofcourse). if only. ;) in ur dreams lah sok farrrn!
okay i cant wait for this sunday (Lisha the fat chick's birthday celebration) and next tuesday (Shangri-la ) !!!!! wootz!
aiyerr Diane.. tsk tsk tsk
lols~
aiyerr Diane.. tsk tsk tsk
lols~
when u think u're not happy with ur life..always think that someone is happy simply because u exist! :)))
Crystal clear it becomes
Thursday, November 4, 2010
hey ;)
i've been blogging sporadically lately..
cause i havent really felt like i have anything important to say.. -.-
but my days are awesome tho! =]
oh and there's a saying.. ask two ppl for their opinion.. and u'll get three answers..
no one knows the answers.. really. like we said..we're all trying to figure things out.. and do the best we can.
i have been discovering that ppl do change..duh -.-
and for the better...these lessons have been accompanied by real-life encounters.. or 'proof'..
just to convince the cynic in me. =]
alright..nah let me show u some pictures..
Star Cruise! ;)
strong wind -.-
same pose in Penang. :DDDD
had supper with Shea Wen, Sze En and Lien at Ming Tien last saturday.
and the clam was damn nice tho! :D
went One U with Kim,LiSHa,Hui Zen and Choo on the next day. im suck in bowling -.-
KL Open! got 4th -.-
我怀念从前的我们。